So how do you determine if my pussy is wet enough to enter? A "wet check" can be approached in a very sensitive, sensual way. If we've been making out for long enough that you think it's appropriate to explore that territory, cup my entire pussy in your hand. Don't go inside-- not yet. Squeeze it. Feel how hot it is. Tell me how hot it is! Press your palm onto my vulva and cup four fingers underneath. Stroke my lips and gently press them into the indentation of my pussy's opening. Don't go inside-- not yet. I really love to grind against your forearm or your thigh between my legs. Let me set the pace and find the right degree of pressure, and once I've found it, rock with me. Kiss me. Lick my neck. Bite my nipples. Pet, tap, or rhythmically press the soft cushiony part of my mons right above my slit. Use a feather light touch to move my still-closed lips back and forth over my clit, which is right underneath that spot. With my clit, the lighter and more gently you can touch it, the hotter I will get. By now, if you've been gentle and you've taken your time, my pussy lips are probably starting to swell and there might be some moisture seeping out. Press your middle finger very gently along the entire length of my slit-- chances are it will yield to you and my pussy will invite your finger in.