Start slow: Very few women will want you to go straight for her clit unless she’s already aroused before you start getting intimate. Before you head downtown, spend some time kissing and stroking her. Play with her breasts, using your hands and your mouth. Once you arrive at her pussy, don’t immediately dive in. Build up the tension a bit. Some women enjoy a light massage of the mons. Caress her inner thighs. Kiss around her mound and tease her outer lips. Get her to the point where she’s ready to beg before you spread the outer lips and give her the touch she’s craving.

Tongue movements: There are a variety of ways to use your tongue to bring your partner pleasure. It’s a good thing to remember that the clit is extremely sensitive for most women and needs to be very aroused before you can even think about getting rough with it. If you start out that way, you are likely going to make your lover want to jump out of the bed and possibly kill her mood. There’s no rule that says you only have to lick her clit.

Lick around the inner lips and the entrance. More than likely, she’s going to want you to spend most of your time licking the clit, but you don’t have to spend the entire time there. Some guys swear by licking the alphabet. If you have enough concentration for that, then by all means, go for it. The important thing to remember is you need to make steady flowing strokes. It’s okay if you aren’t licking the exact same way the whole time, but you shouldn’t change it up too much or become erratic with the movements. When she’s ready for you to be rougher and lick harder, she’ll let you know. Some women enjoy having their clit or lips sucked on. Experiment and see what your lover likes.