20 Mar 2009 @ 00:05
Caelen:Displaying your partners body, or getting her to do it can be a very potent and arousing activity. Normally, we spend a lot of time clothed, and letting someone else see your partner is exciting, dangerous and very erotic. She may well be very unkeen on the idea, so it is best to approach this in slow stages; it make take several years to progress from one stage to another. However, you're not involved in a race with anyone else, so don't feel that you've got to end up getting your partner to walk naked down Oxford Street! Taking it slowly allows you both to discuss it, and decide to stop at a point at which you both feel comfortable. So although I'm talking about a series of stages, do whatever you feel happy with; I'm not advocating what you have to do, merely some of the things you can do.
I guess the first stage is to wear normal everyday clothes, but without underwear. If your partner is particularly busty it may be uncomfortable for her to go without a bra, which means she's going to want to stop as soon as possible, so you need to be sensitive to how she feels about this. However, if it is practical, get her to go out wearing, as I say, her normal clothes. If she wears a shirt or blouse with buttons, or a short skirt, so much the better. Encourage her to not to button up all the way; in fact to wear the blouse with one more button undone than usual. You should be able to get a nice view when she leans over, and you should both get a thrill out of the fact that you can see rather more of her than you'd expect to in a public situation! ...
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