Had sex. Those two little words can sure elicit a reaction depending on when and where they're uttered. But what does "had sex" mean, anyway?

It seems that no one knows. In a new study from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, researchers found no consensus on what "had sex" means. They conducted a random, telephone survey of 204 men and 282 women living in Indiana. The respondents ranged in age from 18 to 96. Most were heterosexual.

Though 95% said penile-vaginal intercourse was having sex, 11% said it wasn't sex if there is no ejaculation. Thirty percent said that oral sex was not having sex. Twenty percent said anal sex was not having sex. Among older men (age 65 and older), 23% did not consider penile-vaginal intercourse to be sex...

This is a position that takes IMMENSE strength for both parties.

The female must have relatively strong abdominal muscles and be able to align her spine with the man's penis throughout the entire experience. The man must be able to lift the woman to the point of insertion, then settle her lower region comfortably into his thighs while leaning back, using the woman's front half as balancing weight...

I'm a shy girl. I feel odd even writing this story even since I've become 'less' shy. It's difficult for me to express my desires. I'm not super kinky. I'm not really any more sexual than most people out there I'd imagine, but I do have one 'fetish' and that is being eaten out. Sure, every girl likes having a guy down there, but I have an intense desire for it. I would rather have a man go down on me or have something rubbing my clit than be fucked in my pussy by the hottest man alive. It's that important to me. Other thing is though, I like to do it myself, meaning I like to have control over the situation down there. Another thing, I don't really like vibrators all that much either nor do I like a man's hands down there all that much. So really what I'm saying is, more than I like to be eaten out, I like to ride guys' faces. It has always been a fetish of mine...